3 Lessons I Learned the Hard Way

When you begin a freelance writing career, it’s definitely a learning experience. No matter how cautious you are and despite all the help and tips offered by other writers, there are just some lessons involved with a writing career that you have to learn yourself. While I’ve learned many lessons throughout my writing career, there are 3 lessons I learned the hard way. These hard lessons are simply what’s involved with growing as a writer and developing a successful writing career.
1. Be careful who you trust
As you begin writing, you start interacting with fellow writers, which you often meet through social marketing, online forums and by working with the same clients and companies. Although most of the people you meet are there for you to bounce ideas off of one another, friendship or support, there are others who have other intentions in mind. Occasionally, you will run across a writer who can not be trusted. I learned this the hard way. Be very careful who you share your ideas with and who you allow to see your unpublished work because every so often, you will run across someone who is out to steal the work of others and their ideas. It’s great to connect with other writers, but always keep your guard up and be very careful who you trust.

2. Beware of deconstructive criticism

Another lesson I had to learn the hard way is the wrath of deconstructive criticism. Although most editors are there to help you and to offer suggestions or tips to help you develop as a writer, some also use their editorial power to offer overly harsh or deconstructive criticism. While editors who offer criticism are simply doing their job, there is a professional etiquette that should be followed. When you catch yourself in the wrath of deconstructive criticism, there really isn’t too much you can do other than sort through the negativity and try to find some valuable information to help you grow your writing abilities. Learn to develop a thick skin, and don’t take the extreme cases of negativity to heart.

3. Sign a contract

When working with private clients and some companies, I can’t express the importance of signing a contract. This protects you and the client from any possible legal issues that may arise, especially regarding compensation. You take a certain level of risk when you work for private clients because some don’t always hold up their end of the bargain. Some are all too willing to stiff a writer when it comes time to pay. Without a contract, there isn’t too much you can do but spread the word about their unsavory business habits, and keep your fingers crossed that the client may some day develop morals and pay you for your services. While you can still get burned even with a contract, you will have proof in your hand if it should come down to suing the client for what you’re owed.

Learning some hard lessons goes along with being your own boss. What are some of the lessons you have learned throughout your career? Any words of advice for others starting out on their writing journey?

About Alyssa Ast

Alyssa works as a freelance writer from home. Visit her website at AlyssaAst.com. Alyssa is also the co-founder of the WM Network, which currently includes The WM Freelance Connection, The WM Parenting Connection, The WM Pet Connection and The WM Review Connection. You can follow her journey through writing on The Writer's Block. Visit her personal blog, Random Thoughts of a Tangled Mind. Alyssa's first book, The Fundamentals of SEO for the Average Joe, was published in August 2010. Alyssa is the mother of three busy boys and one beautiful girl.

3 Responses to “3 Lessons I Learned the Hard Way”

  1. Mine would include:

    You don’t have to suffer for years taking low-paid gigs. You can move up as soon as you think you can.

    You don’t have to be a j-school graduate to write for top markets. You can write your way to whatever assignment you want.
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  2. Alyssa, I love your phrase “deconstructive criticism.”

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